>I made my topic about early intervention with asd
The mother sounds interesting. This topic has being coming up a bit on the gen. The failure of parents to be sensible i.e. "if the captain is drunk then don't blame the crew for dancing". It sounds like its another single mum doing her own thing, in this situation the kids willnot be getting proper guidance and likely have their heads full of woman nonsense.
I have a theory that this does not matter much as the formative years start around 16, this is when coaching by a man will make all the difference.