Find a girl you like, make sure she's not too far out of your league, talk to her, be funny, make a her laugh, compliment her smile or hair or whatever, ask her out for coffee, tell her you like her over coffee, want to get to know her, ask her out on another date, communicate, communicate, communicate... but don't talk too much, be a LISTENER, even if her shit is boring... and don't act like a spaz. Like don't offer to show her your pog collection or your Pokumans or whatever. Hide your nerdy power level.
Also don't be too thirsty, play it cool, play it subtle. Tell her you like her, she's beautiful, gorgeous, cute... but don't like confess your love in poetry or some crazy shit. Just be cool, calm and concise about it, learn to read her expressions.
Oh, on the first actual date, hold her hand. Maybe give her a kiss at the end if it went well.
PROTIP: If she's thirsty as hell and you wind up fuckin on the first date... yeah that ain't gonna last. You hooked up with a hoe and she'll dump and run at the nearest convenience. I mean if that's all your lookin for it's cool, but if you want a real relationship avoid dragging ass with the trash bags.
You can also use dating apps, that's an easy way to sorta speed date (electronically). But be careful with that, cause with dating app shit a lot of the girls are just frontin for free shit. They gonna do you up like Bernie Sanders and have themselves a free-for-all at the expense of your bank account... literally!
Best way to avoid that is to look for mediocre girls. Like, you don't have to date the hottest chick, learn to lower your expectations a little. Like chubby girls (not morbidly obese) are really nice cause they're usually not so high on themselves that they ~except~ to be treated like a queen, so when you ~do~ treat them like a queen they melt like butter and get super affectionate.
LEARN TO SPOT CRAZY! AND LEARN TO AVOID IT!
Don't put your dick in crazy! This is important... on the first date, if the first thing out of her mouth is pronouns, lefty politics, or her endless myriad of "disorders"... yeah, not a good idea. Especially if she dwells on them and constantly brings them up. Like if she can't shut up about her depression or her bi-polar disorder or... what the fuck ever... don't do a second date! End it there at the first date and move on, you're better off not subscribing to her "issues". You don't want to wind up dating a disorder. If she has no other sense of personality outside of her problem labels... DO NOT PUT YOUR DICK IN IT!
Lastly... before you get a girlfriend or even attempt to date another human being... you might need some self-improvement. Lose some weight, lift some weight, try being less of a spaz, read self-help books, recognize your flaws and try and improve upon them, be a better person, don't be self-entitled (like thinking girls owe you sex if you're nice to them) and DON'T be the "friend". Like you can ~say~ you'll be their friend and that's cool, but like don't spend all your time hanging around them trying to get with them, just blow them off 99% of the time and act like they're not that important. Like a "friend" you keep at a distance.
PS - Sometimes it can be helpful to NOT be super nice... like being a bit of a jerk is a real turn on for some women. Don't be ABUSIVE about it, but you can be a bit of a brat. Also is a girl is being an obnoxious brat towards you (like stealing your hat and making you chase after her, or grabbing your arm and writing shit on it with a sharpie)... yeah, she likes you. Sometimes flirting takes the form of being mischievous and a bit mean, DO NOT RESPOND IN ANGER! If you start raging and hulking out over her playful antics it'll be an immediate turn off for her and she'll hate you.